So where have I been?
Getting my effing homework done that's where ;-P
Anyway--I had an "aha moment" as Oprah would say.
Maybe, Pest is right, maybe I've judged Drew too quickly.
Maybe, because I've assumed that Drew is not a spanko, he doesn't act like one.
For example, because I assume he won't take charge, I tell him how to take charge-- and because I tell him how to take charge he is never really taking charge... make sense?
I dominate him to be dominating... instead of being submissive and allowing him to fulfill the role.
I have more to try-- mwah ha ha...
Yes I think our spankings have only been semi fulfilling because as much as I say he's in control, I'm in control.
I just need to trust him...
Oh G-d another chick with trust issues-- that's not cliche
Thanks and Spanks