Random Hook up-- already

So not even 24 hours after I broke up with Drew I made out with a random guy, we'll call him Mike-- That's a bit bold for me... even though I'm a spanko with many kinks, the vanilla world perceives me as a straight edge prude. (If only they knew-- hah hah) Anyway, I was hanging out in an office building doing some assisting work when a guy there was complaining of back pains I gave him a bit of a massage-- I thought it was innocent, but then he decided to take me on a journey-- It was the roof of the building, on which there was a helipad and we started making out. Oddly enough he, like Drew is 31, I am 20. How is it that I continuously attract 31 year olds.

He sang Kermit the frog's Rainbow connection to me lol
It was rather humourous but I appreciated his expression of joy

He asked me why I broke up with Drew, I told him that the relationship fizzled and he was too vanilla for me. Mike looked at me and was like, "so you're into like being tied up and stuff?" Hmm, I 've met many vanillas who don't know the word vanilla, so does it mean something that he had some idea of the definition??

Anyway, this blog entry is semi lame. No spanking involved. boo.

I've been cheating on you!

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Finals are over, relationship is over!

Wow this is my 20th post, and I have big news too
'kay guys I am back!
I decided that I better stay away during finals otherwise I'd fail all my tests
So now I'm back, and I'm better than ever!

I have had one spanking since the last time we talked, I have had 4 finals, 1 move, and 1 breakup!

Funny thing is I am stoked about the break up because I want to go out and get spanked!

The last spanking of Drew and My relationship went as so:

He picked me up at 9:30pm for a quick rendevous, as we both had early mornings. When we got to his place we were all over each other. While we were woven in making out, he slips his hands down my tights and starts squeezing my bottom. I felt amazing. In my head I was chanting
SPANK ME
SPANK ME
SPANK ME
And then, as though he were listening to my thoughts he stopped kissing me and said, "I know what you want."
And he sent me to his room to get ready.
"where do you want me?" I said, tights pulled down around my knees. I realized there are a lot of positions he does not know...all in good time.
He leaned me over the bed and asked what I wanted him to spank with..."It's all up to you." I said with a smile.
He then started rubbing my bottom before pulling his hand back and giving me a sound hand spanking.

He didn't hold anything back.
He spanked and spanked fast and hard. Each blow hurt immensely. I squealed. At one point I yelled out OW.
"Bad 'ow'" he asked
"Bad 'ow'" I confirmed
He rubbed my bottom
Oh no I thought He's going to be afraid to spank me
boy was I wrong!
After a few rubs he was at it again, only harder this time.

This is a far cry from the guy who was too afraid to hurt me."

As for the break up, that happened today. I was bored. He's vanilla and really wants sex bad, and I can't give that to him, and he can't give me the DD I want. He's busy at work, I'm busy at school, not to mention I want to play the field and go to spanking parties and explore this brand new world of spankos!
I am so wide-eyed and excited and Drew seemed very not into this.

Another reason I've been gone so long is www.bottomlines.co.uk OMG best spanking website ever. I LUB it .... Anyway--- I just finished with finals moved out of my dorm and I am ready for a spankering!!

Thanks and Spanks
Michelle!

Vulvodynia SUCKS and not in the good way

This blog entry is not for the weak at heart.
It's about my frustration with an illness that currently prevents me from having sex

I have a condition called vulvodynia-- my particular form of vulvodynia is called vestibulodynia. Basically it means that if you touch the areas with in my vulva, it burns, like hell.

It sucks, because I want to have sex. I want to enjoy sex. But I can't. I never have.
The first treatment was yeast pills, to check if there was an underlying yeast problem.
Then I'd just need some pills and I'd be cured...
Nope, no such luck.

The next treatment scares the living daylights out of me-- Dilators.

Dilators are basically surgical dildos.
You used a small one until you can associate the pain with comfort. SO my medicine: Masturbate with varying size dildos for a few months every night.

For most people that would be amazing. For me it sounds like hell. The first dilator is slightly larger than a finger, but even a finger inserted inside me makes it difficult to sit for a day or two (and not in a good way)

So I'm a little scared and sad.
And felt like posting to release.
Because once I release, then I can take the next action, whatever that may be.

Thanks and Spanks
Michelle

You Know You're a Spanko when:

You know you are a spanko if:

1-Onomatopoeias are a real turn on

2-You remember the day you learned the phrase "brand spanking new"

3-You read the book The Whipping Boy to do a book report in elementary school

4-You remember the first time someone slapped you on the ass playfully

5-Two words "The Secretary"

6-Two more words "Corner time"

7-You know what "Vanilla", "OTK", and "Bratting" mean

8-You know what a brush from the Vermont Country Store is good for, and you've perused the site.

9-The word discipline makes you swoon

10-You rent a movie because of a few seconds of spanking in a scene

11-You've tried self spanking

12-You know what ping pong is really for

13-You have more to add to this list

Ode of a Spanko

I need you to spank me.

I need you to fuck me.

I need you to love me.

Hold me

Correct me

Pick me up

Collect me

Chivalry turns me on, but only for so long.

So I offer myself up to you. 

Do with me as you will

I trust you

I love you

My body tingles at the thought of your big strong hands

Each stroke

Each slap

Each thrust

I squeal, but don't you hesitate!

You make me Wait

Anticipate

My eager bottom

Waits for you 

My eager clit 

Swells for you

My shaking body

Lusts for you

My tender heart

Loves you

~Michelle

Is it cheating?

Just curious on your thoughts:

Is it cheating to be spanked by someone other than your partner, if your partner won't spank you?

I have my own opinions on the subject and am curious what you think

Normal Adolescent Behavior: Havoc 2

Have you seen it?
Quick spanking scene worth checking out.

What are your fave movie spankings?

I think The Secretary is on the top of my list

SPANKING PARTIES

What's your experience?
YAY or NAY
I'd like to go to one me thinks-- lemme know how you all feel 'bout 'em!

Dangerous Eye Roll [FICTIONAL SPANKING]

"You've been a bad girl haven't you?" Chris said to me condescendingly. I hate when he plays like that. I like it realistic, otherwise I don't get that dreadful anticipation that makes me so hot.

I nod bashfully and roll my eyes.

"Did you just roll your eyes at me?!" SLAP Chris shouts as he slaps my face. "Answer me, slut."

I love it when he plays rough

"Yes sir." I mumble "I hate it wh--" SMACK

"When I want you're opinion I'll ask for it. Now pull down your pants and underwear."

Slowly I peel down my skinny jeans, fuck they're hard to get off, then I pull down my pink boxer briefs attempting to hide the evidence of how happy this game made me. Chris threw me over his broad lap and began rubbing my bottom with his hairbrush then WHAP aiiiee jeez that hurt
SMACK I feel the my buttocks giving way and jiggling to the beat of the hairbrush. SLAP SMACK SLAP. Shit! This effing hurts. I stare at the beige carpeting on the floor and the side of his hairy legs, trying to think up games to make it hurt less. SMACK

"I'm sorry. Please, please stop!" I squeal and squirm.

The only answer I get is the methodical fiery attack on my backside.
Then after an eternity, it stops.
Or so I think...
SWISH
The leather strap cuts the air and wraps around my sit spots
I shriek in pain
AHH
WHAP
Squirming I nearly fall off his lap and as Chris adjusts me, he notices how wet I am.

"Oh you think this punishment is sexual do you?" he asks.

No time to ponder, how do I answer that correctly? How do I answer that correctly? I really don't want to be spanked any more. SHIT

"I'll show you sexual." Chris launches me onto the bed holding my arms above my head with his right hand he lowers his jeans with his left. He comes on top of me and penetrates me pounding harder and faster. "This is fucking sexual."

With each rise and fall I can feel my heart race. Each moment he's pounding I'm running out of breath gasping for air, and gasping for this moment... He just knows, how to make me go crazy, you know?

Moaning and squealing we collapse in each others sweaty arms giggling.

SO long SO sorry

So where have I been?
Getting my effing homework done that's where ;-P
Anyway--I had an "aha moment" as Oprah would say.

Maybe, Pest is right, maybe I've judged Drew too quickly.
Maybe, because I've assumed that Drew is not a spanko, he doesn't act like one.
For example, because I assume he won't take charge, I tell him how to take charge-- and because I tell him how to take charge he is never really taking charge... make sense?
I dominate him to be dominating... instead of being submissive and allowing him to fulfill the role.

Get it?

I have more to try-- mwah ha ha...

Yes I think our spankings have only been semi fulfilling because as much as I say he's in control, I'm in control.

I just need to trust him...
Oh G-d another chick with trust issues-- that's not cliche

Thanks and Spanks
Michelle

Spanking # 2: Awkward but Real (REAL SPANKING RECOUNT)

Hi guys
I was spanked today largely because of you-- It's because of you I had the strength to keep going, I knew I needed a good story lol. Anyway. here it is.

So Monday night Drew dropped me off at my dorm after class. He invited me to his apartment for some play but instead I went to my dorm to do homework, but I didn't do homework, I blogged until 4 am. I was so tired, that I didn't finish my assignments and I overslept. The next day I cut class to finish my homework.

While I was with Drew today, I prayed for him to ask me if I followed the rules, I didn't want to admit to it without being asked. So we went to his place, I rented Secretary-- (best mainstream spanko movie EVER.) and before we watched it he said,
"Hey, did you follow the rules this week?"
"No. I didn't do my assignments." I told him the whole story and then he said we'd watch the movie and deal with the spanking after-- tantalizing anticipation. After the amazing spanking scene in Secretary (Youtube it if you haven't) I asked if it turned him on. He said that her reactions turned him on. He said it was fun to be dominant but it hadn't turned him on. But making your partner happy is what it's all about. After the movie he told me to go into the bedroom FUCK, I was so not in the mood to be spanked, I didn't know it was possible, but lo and behold. I dragged my feet on the floor and went into his room. He asked me what's the matter,
"I don't want to be spanked." I muttered
"Okay we don't have to do it babe." He replied.
"Yes we do, it's part of the agreement." I said "Let's keep our agreement"
"Um, okay."
"Babe, are you okay with spanking me?" I asked
"Honestly, I'm just confused." He said looking at me earnestly
"I want you to spank me."
"Okay then, kneel over the bed with your pants off."
I pulled my pants down, I felt like a six year old brat, I did not want to take my pants down. I knelt over the bed and WHAM, Drew does not know the meaning of warming up. WHAM, WHAM, after each slap my whole body would shift and he would drag it back into position holding my feet down on the ground, damn it hurt so good. You read the stories and forget that each WHAM each WHACK each SLAP has an individual and distinct pain associated with it building up to an ultimate tingling and excitement. As the spanking went on I really wished he would stop, but we don't have a safe word for punishment spankings (that's the point--it's a punishment) so I bared it. After about 100 or so and several loud OWs he stopped and started massaging my bottom.
"Are you okay?" I asked
"I just need some proof that you enjoy this" He was shaking a bit
"Slide your fingers a little forward"
As he slid his fingers between my lips he felt the magnitude of wetness produced by his handiwork. And I think he's starting to get it. He took his pants off and told me to suck his cock as he forced my head into his pelvis and his cock into my throat. I sucked till he was moaning "you could get really good at this." (I should say that the next time he spanks me) He is the first person I've ever gave head to. After he was done, he asked me to start masturbating and then he started spanking me as a masturbated, I moaned a bit, which excited him some more.
We played and rubbed and humped, (we unfortunately can't have sex right now because I have a vaginal condition that prevents that.) and then I asked him to hit me with a belt.

And he did, he double his belt over twice and wailed on me a few times! And you know what? His hand is SO much worse! We played a bit, he took his stuffed Einstein and spanked me with it a bit, and we laughed, then he massaged me and I him. It was so fun,

As we just sat and cuddled, he stared at me, and said "You are such an amazing woman. AND you're only 20! That's what makes you so amazing; you're just beginning"
I loved that moment.

After our play, he drove me back to the dorm, my bottom started swelling and bruising! SO exciting.

He may be a vanilla, but he is one open minded, loving, and accepting vanilla. Who knows, maybe he's not vanilla, maybe he is just white chocolate disguised as vanilla

I'm so grateful I'm not vanilla!

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What do you think of this article

This article on ABC news says that spanking kids causes sexual problems such as an affinity to BDSM practices.

Personally I do not advocate spanking children, but I was never spanked and I love BDSM, and the real question is-- Why is enjoying spanking in one's adult sexual life called "a problem"?

I thought of all of you!

Comrades in spanking!
I was out of town for the weekend and on Sunday I was in the hotel lobby as a man yelled on his phone
Have you been bad?
Yes you have don't lie to me!
Do you need a SPANKING?
Why does that word just sing in my ears?
I like to imagine he was talking to his wife, promising her a coming home present :-)

The Rules

Drew and I have rules, we decided that for a month we would try out a semi domestic discipline relationship. I say semi because we have rules and he is in charge of deciding what I get spanked with and when I get spanked etc, but it is still a part of sexual foreplay (unlike most DD)
rules:

1. Get assignments done on time
2. Exercise 3x a week 45 minutes a time
3. Call him 2x a week (don't wait for him to call me)
4. Be a vegetarian (He loves the animals :-))
5. No rude comments esp. in public
6. Don't do anything that could put us in danger (ie. talk to him while he is trying to focus on the road)

So I've been getting it all done, but this weekend I went out of town and didn't get all my assignments done on time, so I deserve a spanking-- but I don't want to tell him, I want him to ask me!
BAH
Well, we have all next Saturday together, I have I feeling I end up end up by the end of the night.

Natalie's first (FICTION SPANKING)

This is my first attempt at fiction spanko writing, I hope you enjoy it.


Natalie Sharpa was a nineteen year old college student. She was smart, with quick wit, and a body to match. She always had the right thing to say, found herself in every leadership position, and was never in trouble a day in her life. So how, she wondered, did she end up face down on her boyfriend's arm chair with her pants at her ankles.

Her heart jumped in her chest as she waited and pondered, He said he'd be back "soon" what does that mean?

Scott and Natalie met in ninth grade, and fell in puppy love, but over the past five years Natalie felt that they had grown together; Scott knew her better than anyone, in every sense of the word. Suddenly, door creaked open, Scott walked in and tapped Natalie lightly on the buttocks

She jumped, "What are you doing?"

"You said you'd trust me right?" Said Scott, "well than, trust me!"

Reluctantly Natalie resumed the position.

SMACK

Natalie jumped a little, but allowed the spanking to continue. THWAP, SMACK, THWAP
Scott's slaps came down on her perky anxious butt in rapid succession.

Natalie found herself actually enjoying this, could he know her better than she knew herself?

"I love you Natie, I'd do anything for you. Even spank you. Give up being in control for a few moments, you might like taking orders for once." Scott said with a chortle as he swung his arm back and landed with a THWACK.
SMACK
SPANK
SLAP

This is really starting to hurt, thought Natalie through moans and whimpers, she debated trying to stop him. However, she couldn't deny the amazing tingle generating from her clitoris and flowing through her entire being.

When Scott's hand finally ceased, Natalie began to stand.

"What are you doing?" Scott asked "Did I tell you to stand?"

"What?" Natalie retorted

"You will bend over the chair until I tell you otherwise, and you will refer to me as sir. Is that clear."

"Yes sir?" Natalie said as she bent over the chair

"Is that a question?"

"No sir." Natalie complied, finally understanding the rules of the game.

"You just earned yourself 5 lashes with the belt. Count them!" Scott said with a smirk

Scott remove his belt slowly allowing the anticipation to built. Natalie was both excited and scared, she'd didn't know what to expect from a belt's lash.
SMACK
"One" Natalie squealed in shock from the fire of the belt
STRAP
"two!"
SMACK THWACK STRAP
By five Natalie was out of breath and so ready to have sex with Scott, this was the best foreplay she had ever experienced.
Her whole body shook, as much as she loved sex with Scott, she never felt this excited to have him in her, he carried her to his bed and pinned her down. Entering her faster, harder, deeper, occasionally pulling out ever so slightly to tease her, leave her wanting more. Until he could no longer control himself and was making love to her harder and more passionate than ever. Each gyration slammed Natalie's fiery bum into the bed deeper, creating the most beautiful pain she had ever experienced.
She never knew she could need someone like this.

As they cuddled in bed, Natalie looked up at Scott in awe, how did he always know just what she needed?

Can a spanko and a nonspanko work together?

What do you think?

My boyfriend isn't really a spanko-- he is afraid to hurt me, but likes to make me happy and does it anyway. He likes being dominant (he says) but he never checks in that I've fulfilled my commitments (I haven't and therefore totally deserve a spanking).

Do you think a non-spanko can be converted?
Michelle

My dream Spanking (FANTASY SPANKING)

This spanking currently only exists in my fantasies, but who knows, give it a few days and it very well be my reality!

I broke a rule, I know I broke it, but maybe, just maybe my boyfriend won't know. I have an agreement to get my homework done on time, or else. We arrive at his place and he asks me if there is anything I have to tell him. I'm an actress, why can't I lie? Oh yes, I remind myself, it's because I'm a spanko!

"I haven't completed my assignments" I say, "but you don't understand I went out of town, I didn't have time."

"Well maybe you should have thought of that before taking a trip for the weekend. As you will soon see actions have consequences. Now go into the bedroom and be ready by the time I get there."

"Drew, honey, I'm not really in the mood to be spanked." I fib to heighten the mood

"I don't care, you are earning yourself more slaps by the minute!" He says firmly

I rush into his room, my heart is thumping my vagina is pulsating. YES! this will rock!
I lie on a pile of pillows naked from the waist down, I wait for what feels like forever, I would actually get bored, but the prospect of Drew walking through that door at anytime keeps me present.

I begin to masturbate when Drew walks in belt in hand. He looks at me longingly, temporarily forgetting the task at hand. Then as if slapped out of his spell his face hardens

"That is not the ready position." Drew says "This might be harder than I thought."

All of a sudden WHAP I feel the belt wrap around my backside.
"Aiiiiiiiiiieeeeeeeeee" I screech, holy shit that is not what I was expecting, but this is a punishment spanking and I have no say in the matter.
WHAP WHAP WHAP
Drew continues to lay them on rapidly I barely have time to breath.
After five lashes he takes me over his lap

"What are you sorry for?" he asks as he spanks with his hand.

"I'm sorry I didn't keep my commitment."

"What else?" He asks patiently, his hand coming down hard and fast on my burning sit spots.

"Umm... Not being responsible."

"And?" he could do this all day until I get the right answer.

"AAAHHH! Shit that hurts Drew stop it!" I squeal

"That's the point, honey."

SMACK SMACK SMACK

"I'm sorry I disrespected you." I say finally understanding what he was searching for.

"Good! Now let that be a last!" He says with his last five swats

He begins massaging my sore bottom, he knows that drives me wild. His hands find his way in between my wet lips.
He laughs at how excited I am
I remove my top and bra and unbutton his jeans, and the ensuing sex is the most passionate, playful, and perfect experience... Describing an experience like this could only dull the extraordinary time we had, the passion and joy and play present do not exist in our world of language, and that is why I love Drew, wholly and completely.

At what age does one become a spanko?

I have a question for you all, at what age does one become a spanko, are we born with it?
At each age-- no matter how fuzzy I remember that things related to spanking incited me. I tingled all over.

I remember being three years old and touching myself while watching Full House because Michelle got in trouble, and I thought maybe she'd get spanked.

I remember a cartoon called Jack Frost or something and there was a bear who got spanked for running away from home.

I remember belting scenes from Little House on the Prarie
I remember Mother Goose's old women in a shoe turning me on-- big time!

My imaginary friends when I was a kid was an entire family, where the father spanked.
I don't know where I got the ideas, I was never hit a day in my life, but some where along the line I knew it would be ideal

Somewhere along the line I got the internet, and at age 12 I could read other people's stories, I became a lurker and a liar. I bluffed on sites about my fake spankings, I was 13 and people would comment back on the fact that I was probably a perverted 40 year old man. HA HA-- if only they knew.

I'm so grateful this medium exists where I can share with people who want to read (my friends get a little thrown aback by my stories) and read what people want to share. It made it so much easier to tell my boyfriend what I want because I know I'm not alone.
It's funny because this semi-anonymous somewhat isolating medium makes me feel more connected than many in person things.

Thanks
Michelle

PS I found the cartoon:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FtkMlciohSg